Being Kind

Treat others as you would have them treat you. It's a simple concept. But how many people really take it seriously? I'd like to think I do, however, there were moments where I wasn't the most kind person I could have possibly have been. It shows when someone is unkind to me and that uncomfortable feeling just before my blood boils happens and I feel something called hurt or pain. I mirror myself and ask: Who have I hurt? Who have I caused pain that this is showing up in my life.

When we relate to others a lot of the time we're not speaking the same language and from that results misunderstandings. For all of us to come from the same point I often forget that we're still so very different. Many are still living by the programs that were taught growing up that don't necessarily serve them now, but it's what they know. This is something that's really hard for me to see and even harder for me to allow. I cannot interfere, I can only live my truth and hope that those close to me can learn from it. Then there are those who live, experience life and find new ways to process the information. Those capable of reprogramming their perception to understand a similar situation but in a different way are able to navigate through life with a healthy well being. At least that's how it appears.

 

It has to take an immeasurable amount of energy to be intentionally unkind to someone else. I imagine that type of toxicity in the system only grows with more thoughts of how else you can hurt that person. I wonder if its really worth it to have those feelings and to act in such a way that is totally unlike who you truly are? When you have broken someones trust or someones heart or a friendship, there's really no coming back from that. You may be able to salvage a portion of that relationship, but it will never be the same. I have learned this the hard way with friends that I have lost.

What I have gained from this is insight that is helping me to move forward. The concept works whether we are aware of it or not.  Its one of the strongest laws in existence. The law of attraction. And whether you believe this or not just be kind and allow this higher vibrational energy to come back to you.